I suppose I should have posted this before my rant about strollers but whatever. My girlfriend Jessi and her hubs Micky (both super people totally worthy of their new title) are now parents! Their son Weylin was born May 27th at 7:36pm. He is super cute at a totally respectable weight of 6 lbs 12 oz and 21 in. I am so happy for them. This has been a long time coming. They have been dealt some crappy cards in their lives and have really become better people, something most of us cannot say about ourselves. And frankly, in my book they have been parents for a couple years now but fate dealt them a shitty blow and they missed the opportunity to raise their daughter. But!! they have the chance now to enjoy their new family.
I must say c-section babies are way cuter than natural delivery kids, sorry Jack! Weylin came out with a totally normal shaped head and everything! He is one stinkin' cute kid, but the genes are good so I didn't expect anything else. I just cannot wait to see him grow and change, his momma has become a pretty cool adult so he's got some good role models (Daddy's allright too ;) ) The next couple years are going to be really fun for all of us and I promise to not let Jack teach Weylin any bad words! We've been working on eradicating them from his vocabulary too.
Welcome to the world little man, I love your momma very much. Your mommy and daddy love you more than you will ever know and there are lots more of us who have loved you since the moment we first got that phone call. Your world will be filled with lots of crazies but they mean well. If you ever need a break just tell your mom you want to go for a drive. She and I used to prefer random roads in Wisconsin, they seemed better suited to clearing our heads. Happy Birthday Weylin!
Wednesday, May 28, 2008
Tales of a pauper
I am beyond frustrated right now! I have been looking for a double stroller for a little while now. My sister in law comes to Chicago pretty frequently with her son and it just makes sense to have one stroller for both Jack and Owen. However, I would really prefer to have a kinda nice, but still used, stoller so that when I do get around to having another kid I don't have to shell out a ton of money. So, I found a really nice double jogging stoller on Craigslist for $1. Now the stoller retails for about $500 so I had a feeling that the $1 price tag was wrong but when the guy told me on the phone that it was $50 that sounded reasonable. I told him I would come by to pick it up. Granted, I did feel like I was getting a really great deal but it didn't seem that far fetched. But, when Josh and I showed up to get our great new stroller, after a whole demonstration on how it works and lots of gushing over how great it is, we said that we would take it. So then he dropped the bomb, "that'll be $450." WHAT?! $450 for a used, dirty stroller that you have already replaced? Are you out of your freaking mind?! "Well it costs like $600 in the store." (LIAR!) Needless to say we did not get our great stroller, but we did get a nice dose of reality. Some people just live differently than we do. I mean, they had already purchased their $1,000 triple stroller and hated to part with their double jogger but it was just sitting there collecting dust. GGGGGRRRRRR! So now that I fell in love with the super maneuverable, super cute, double jogger my heart is set on one. However, I don't have to have that brand or whatever. I am currently working on finding a much cheaper, used imitation of the super fab stroller that I fell in love with. And trust me, I know that I don't have two kids yet, and I know that it will only be used on occasion until I do. But it was so convenient, and it would mean I would be less likely to shell out $400+ when I do have two kids. And maybe I will actually get off my butt and jog with it!! I know, this really is an amazing stroller, capable of working miracles. So, keep your eyes peeled people, we are on a mission. Find a great double jogging stroller for under $100. Oh and I need to find an up to code, used crib for under $30 for Jen when she comes home. Wish me luck, I hope that the shopping Gods are smiling upon me because I will not rest until I have my stroller. I know, stubborn... I have no idea where I get that from!
Thursday, May 22, 2008
It's Past my Bedtime
Okay, so it is 11:00 at night and I don't have anything witty to talk about but I promised pictures when I fixed my blog so here they are. There is a hodgepodge (?!) of events included but I will try to explain them as I go along. Basically, just look at my cute kid and my cute family and think about how much you want to be me (minus the double chin I am sporting in these pics, nobody wants that!!).
Potty training, yipee!! I cannot wait to be done with diapers!
Where is Jackson playing? you ask...
Umm, yeah... that would be the cat gym. And no he doesn't really fit. I think that we have to take it apart because he will not stop going in it but he can't get back out! Really, he's smart, I swear!
But look at how cute he is... He was saying "CHEEEEESE" for the camera.
And now he is swimming, I don't remember to where but it was somewhere adventurous!
And now he is going to work, at the job site, with the DIGGERS OF COURSE!!
Oh and we went to Colorado recently to visit with Jen & Howard & Owen. Here is a recap of that interesting trip...
He was helping to pack, next he put the cat in one and shut the top.
Heaven on Earth! The first day in Colorado and Jack is already sold! All Howard had to do was let him drive the BOBCAT!!!! and they were buddies for the rest of the trip.
And then we went to a Cubs game at Coors Field for like $9! The weather was beautiful and we were ready for a great game!
Daddy and Jack are watching basebawls... you know where you frow the bawl and run crazy!! I think Jacks game sound much more fun.
And then the meltdowns began, luckily the game was pretty much over. As soon as we started towards the car and Jack saw the HUGE tower crane the world was a better place again.
The boys got a big kick out of bathtime! I really need to get that Octopus, the colored water comes out of his tenticals.
Oh and yes were were up on a mountain, how high? you ask... very high!
Potty training, yipee!! I cannot wait to be done with diapers!
Where is Jackson playing? you ask...
Umm, yeah... that would be the cat gym. And no he doesn't really fit. I think that we have to take it apart because he will not stop going in it but he can't get back out! Really, he's smart, I swear!
But look at how cute he is... He was saying "CHEEEEESE" for the camera.
And now he is swimming, I don't remember to where but it was somewhere adventurous!
And now he is going to work, at the job site, with the DIGGERS OF COURSE!!
Oh and we went to Colorado recently to visit with Jen & Howard & Owen. Here is a recap of that interesting trip...
He was helping to pack, next he put the cat in one and shut the top.
Heaven on Earth! The first day in Colorado and Jack is already sold! All Howard had to do was let him drive the BOBCAT!!!! and they were buddies for the rest of the trip.
And then we went to a Cubs game at Coors Field for like $9! The weather was beautiful and we were ready for a great game!
Daddy and Jack are watching basebawls... you know where you frow the bawl and run crazy!! I think Jacks game sound much more fun.
And then the meltdowns began, luckily the game was pretty much over. As soon as we started towards the car and Jack saw the HUGE tower crane the world was a better place again.
The boys got a big kick out of bathtime! I really need to get that Octopus, the colored water comes out of his tenticals.
So the boys really played nicely the entire trip. Here they were being babies, Jack did have a paci in his mouth but once he realized it would be documented he spit it out.
Look at my super cute hubster! The Colorado sun really suits him.
Oh and yes were were up on a mountain, how high? you ask... very high!
Aren't we so cute? I am not sure what is going on with my neck though. I think it is because I am holding the camera up to take the picture... I am using the Gazelle I swear!
Before we came home we got to play at the local rec center pool. They even have a huge water slide that Josh, Howard and I really loved. We had a blast and the boys liked playing with the noodles. Jack is really getting better in the water. He held on to us for dear life except when he was "learning to swim" with the noodle!
O on the other hand is happy anywhere! I swear you could put that kid in a drawer and he would just blabber on and play with his toes or something! I miss them already!
Well I am sure that you have seen enough of us for a while. I will post something funny next time!
Monday, May 12, 2008
Mothers Day
Well, Mothers Day is always interesting. Sometimes it is hard to just be grateful for our families and our children and the time that we have with them. I find that it is really easy to get caught up in the mystique of the "perfect Mothers Day".
My only wish for Mothers Day was to spend time with my family and to go to the Chicago Botanic Gardens in our area. I had been looking forward to the gardens for a while, last year when we went we were able to get a ton of wonderful pictures and had a wonderful day. Well this year, we had rain. Lots of rain, so the botanic gardens were vetoed. My moms wish of a picnic and playing at Independence Grove was vetoed as well. So, the moms, whose day this is supposed to be, didn't get their wishes.
But you know what, my Mothers Day was wonderful! It really wasn't about what we did or didn't do. I just had a great time hanging out with my husband and my son. Playing and eating pancakes and Reeses peanut butter cups. Josh made us breakfast and I gave Jack a haircut. We really took our time getting showered and out the door. It was leisurely, and fun, and perfect! I know, controlling and unflexible me had a wonderful time not doing what I wanted to do!
I think that us mothers get really hung up on the idea of Mothers Day. We build it up in our heads as this day when our husbands will suddenly realize how much we mean to them and miraculously rise up and worship the ground we walk on. They will intuitively know both our wishes and our needs, and meet them all. They will come home with gifts and kisses and thank yous. The card will be perfect and not for "My loved one overseas" ;) Our children will shower us with I love yous and hugs and perfect behavior. There will be no need for nagging or cleaning up as everyone will do what is asked and the house will stay neat.
This will never happen. We will always have to tell our husbands what we want in a gift, where we want to go and what time we need to be out the door. They will still ask us what they should wear, what the kids should wear and if they really have to shower. They will watch just one more minute of the race and they will be getting around to breakfast. But you know what, it's okay. It's okay if it rains (literally or figuratively) on our parade. It is okay if we still have to pick up the toys that got dumped out but not played with. It is okay if we have to get all the ingredients and utensils out for breakfast so that all our darling husband has to do is pour the batter. Because you know what, we love them and they love us. I am so blessed to have a husband who takes an active role in raising our son, in helping around the house, in keeping me sane. Even if he takes just as active a role in making me crazy in the first place. I am so blessed to have a beautiful, smart, funny kid who tells me he loves me with a laugh when I am being weird. Who sits still for the first time while I am cutting his hair and actually has an opinion about it (for the record, he wanted it short). I am so blessed to have two families that love me and my strange habits, even if I seem to pass all of them on to my son!
Despite the rain, despite not getting my way, I had a wonderful Mothers Day. It was perfectly imperfect. And I have everything that actually matters. I can go to a garden another time, now a day with my family just having fun and hanging out, that is a Mothers Day to remember.
And to all the moms out there, no matter how imperfect your day was, remember that you do make a difference. And even if no one ever says thank you, you still have the power to change your kids' lives. Even if you also do some blackmailing along the way... Happy Mothers Day!
My only wish for Mothers Day was to spend time with my family and to go to the Chicago Botanic Gardens in our area. I had been looking forward to the gardens for a while, last year when we went we were able to get a ton of wonderful pictures and had a wonderful day. Well this year, we had rain. Lots of rain, so the botanic gardens were vetoed. My moms wish of a picnic and playing at Independence Grove was vetoed as well. So, the moms, whose day this is supposed to be, didn't get their wishes.
But you know what, my Mothers Day was wonderful! It really wasn't about what we did or didn't do. I just had a great time hanging out with my husband and my son. Playing and eating pancakes and Reeses peanut butter cups. Josh made us breakfast and I gave Jack a haircut. We really took our time getting showered and out the door. It was leisurely, and fun, and perfect! I know, controlling and unflexible me had a wonderful time not doing what I wanted to do!
I think that us mothers get really hung up on the idea of Mothers Day. We build it up in our heads as this day when our husbands will suddenly realize how much we mean to them and miraculously rise up and worship the ground we walk on. They will intuitively know both our wishes and our needs, and meet them all. They will come home with gifts and kisses and thank yous. The card will be perfect and not for "My loved one overseas" ;) Our children will shower us with I love yous and hugs and perfect behavior. There will be no need for nagging or cleaning up as everyone will do what is asked and the house will stay neat.
This will never happen. We will always have to tell our husbands what we want in a gift, where we want to go and what time we need to be out the door. They will still ask us what they should wear, what the kids should wear and if they really have to shower. They will watch just one more minute of the race and they will be getting around to breakfast. But you know what, it's okay. It's okay if it rains (literally or figuratively) on our parade. It is okay if we still have to pick up the toys that got dumped out but not played with. It is okay if we have to get all the ingredients and utensils out for breakfast so that all our darling husband has to do is pour the batter. Because you know what, we love them and they love us. I am so blessed to have a husband who takes an active role in raising our son, in helping around the house, in keeping me sane. Even if he takes just as active a role in making me crazy in the first place. I am so blessed to have a beautiful, smart, funny kid who tells me he loves me with a laugh when I am being weird. Who sits still for the first time while I am cutting his hair and actually has an opinion about it (for the record, he wanted it short). I am so blessed to have two families that love me and my strange habits, even if I seem to pass all of them on to my son!
Despite the rain, despite not getting my way, I had a wonderful Mothers Day. It was perfectly imperfect. And I have everything that actually matters. I can go to a garden another time, now a day with my family just having fun and hanging out, that is a Mothers Day to remember.
And to all the moms out there, no matter how imperfect your day was, remember that you do make a difference. And even if no one ever says thank you, you still have the power to change your kids' lives. Even if you also do some blackmailing along the way... Happy Mothers Day!
Tuesday, May 6, 2008
*Update*
Okay, so I still cannot do much blogging because I am at work and I am swamped. But my computer is going to the doctor today so I should be able to resume my witty posting next week. I will keep you all (all 10 of you if I am lucky) posted as to my return! Oh and the entire Allen clan is sick (allergies, stomach bugs, colds, pnuemonia- we have it all) so we have been keeping our germy selves in bed as much as possible. Last night Josh, Jack and I spent the night in bed reading books and watching tv. It was really nice. Dani is also home for the summer with her crazy dog (who has fleas, ack!). And we finally take Smokey to the vet tomorrow morning to get spayed and declawed, yipee!! I feel so bad that he will be in pain but I cannot wait for a clawless cat! Anywho, gotta go tend to my piles that are threatening to collapse in on my and bury me alive at my desk. At least my barking cough would alert people to my location. Talk to you soon!
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